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My Meeting with Him #2

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After meeting him personally, I am MELTED AGAIN AND AGAIN, ITS LIKE HE IS THE ONE WHO MEANT, DESTINED, and FATED to be with ME. I questioned to ALLAH harder about his coming, is it really for me, or it is only one of the obstacle. But, ALLAH seems made me closer to him without my grasps. I started to be MORE INTERESTED IN HIM. I STOPPED MY ISTIKHOROH PRAY THEN, since I read an article said if we already got the answer, we need to stop our istokhoroh. We met casually, we texted each other even tough its only once in 2-3 days. At that time, I started to think " Its ok to get married anytime (before I said its nest year, I wasnt ready enough). 

OH YA, I did istikhoroh couple of times but never get really convince and ready until I told him to visit my parent at my house. Around 2 weeks after, He came to my parents. YOU KNOW? my parent were really glad to know him until my mom stated to get married FASTER (LOL). My father also does not felt anything but good side of him. AGAIN, I BECAME MORE INTERESTED TO HIM. EVEN I ALREADY IMAGINED IF WE WILL GET MARRIED THIS YEAR (LOL). AROUND 2-3 DAYS after his visits, his Grandma passed away and with all my respect I came to his house to join their condolence. At that time, his parent also seems to be really happy with my come, I asked by lil brother to come along. We talked about many things. I FELT COMFORTABLE AT THAT TIME TOUGH I AM STAYING AT STRAGER HOUSE WITHOUT MY PARENT. AGAIN, I develop my interest into COMFORTABLE. THE FEELING THAT IS A SEED OF LIKE/ LOVE. 

MY PARENT AND HIS PARENT ALREADY KNOWN EACH OTHER BEFORE OUR MEETING AND I THINK ITS GET CLOSER. My mom seems to texted his mom casually and vice-versa. His Dad contacted my dad as well. Isnt it MATCH? YES I THOUGHT SO. TBC....... 

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