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Lesson #1 - After Graduated??



after we graduated (especially in bachelor degree) we will feel something different from before, there is no groupings, collectively, or even hanging out easily with your friends. i do shocked at first, but i feel usual right now.

one things that should be consider after graduated is also about deciding the future plan. it is work, or study. everyone should plan more than one decision. this will give the second or third plan of your life. and remember, this is our-own life, not others. so make it based on your passion, not others. not even your parents (eventhough parent's bless will be help a lot).

my experience is after i graduated, i am still working at one of big company (cosmetics) as the right-hand of bussiness development (i'm not graduated on those subject). however, i'm not going to loose my dream for continuing my study, so i decided to improve my english capability by learning IELTS PREPARATION class at one of university. no one knows that i was search every single information bu myself. i gone arround campus and education centre that provide the ielts prep class. i ride from one campus and education centre to another in order to get brief information.

i got my place for learn. and i join the test after. poor me, my result is not as good that i want. i got 6 􀄃􀆒blue􏿿. but i'm not give up yet, i learn ielts by joining several FREE online Ielts class. instead of learn, i also search everything about schplarships, universities, and requirrements through private consultation or education fair, i also join several *dp consultation by my self.

i found friend in learning ielts even joining several education consultation, but again, with our diffrent schedule, we cannot get into it.


from those experiences, i feel like indeed, everyone can't walk collectively as student. anyone has different story #aftergraduated?  would you like to share with me? thank you

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